Today I shared this post with a select group of my business partners from all over the world. The message is a simple yet powerful one, and I believe it is for all of us, regardless of profession. Read on and enjoy, I trust this will be a blessing to you. - Tim!
I have some homework for you. It'll only take you a few minutes, but you really need to do this. Trust me. I wouldn't steer you wrong.
Many years ago I wrote a great song titled '
Never Lose Who You Are' (If you haven't heard it, you can find it
here). Today I want to share a few thoughts on my own recent journey from 'Who I was being' back to 'Who I really am'. None of us are immune to these challenges my friend, read on and enjoy.
A few years ago I realized something myself, and I wanted to share it with you. Play along for just a few minutes... go ahead, take a quick break from what you are doing - you have my permission.
Right now - while you are reading this, think about the things that are most important to you TODAY. Right Now. Think about what you TREASURE more than anything else.
Is it time with your family? Is it serving others? Maybe just some quiet time to relax and reflect? Perhaps is being able to provide or give back in a way that your parents, family & friends were never able to do.
I want you to know that I did this same exercise, and here's what I noticed:
* I wasn't doing ANY of those things - the 'important' things, the things deep in my heart
* I was caught in the 'daily grind' of working through my checklists - with no relief, no real joy nor satisfaction, just another few items on the list added each day
* I was telling myself I'd 'get to them later' once I 'finished' what I was doing. Later never came.
* I knew I was
lying to myself on a daily basis just to get through the days working. The great salesman in me was selling MYSELF into the lie, day in - day out.
Personally I was putting in 70+ hour weeks so that I could spend more time with my wife and our children. I had done this for YEARS and somehow justified it over and over again. That doesn't even MAKE ANY SENSE!
You see, I didn't have a CHOICE. I needed an option. A different plan if you will.
When asked 'who they are' the vast majority of professional men and women will respond instead with 'what they do'. Test yourself on this - when you meet someone new and are asked 'what you do', count how many times your first response is your work. Are we not parents, children, volunteers, spouses, friends etc. before we are tradesman? My friend, there is a difference.
As for me, I was stuck in the 'what I did' life and it didn't align at all with the real me, the 'who I am' part of me. - And that can be a troubled, dark and lonely place to exist.
As I look back now it's obvious that I needed to make some changes. Through much prayer and what seemed at the time like some abrupt changes (economy, industry, layoffs) God brought me around to where we are today - and we're realizing the dreams of our hearts, focusing on what is really important to my wife and I.
So what is it for you? What is keeping you awake at night. . . What thought, dream, goal or vision is lingering in your mind EVERY DAY. . . What is your persistent desire that always seems just out of reach?
Maybe you're like I was, and you've even started to just 'give up' a little bit. . . saying things like '
Well, it's probably never going to happen for me anyways' or '
I guess it's too late for me. . . '
Here is good news for you - it's NOT too late! Never Lose Who You Are!
Here's the last part of your assignment. Now that you've taken a few minutes to reflect on this - I call it your 'Why' - I want you to hear from a few of my friends in the SendOutCards business. We all have the same opportunity in our hands. Your story and situation is unique - you are SPECIAL in all the world.
Listen to my friends as they share their experiences, and think of your own while you do.
It'll be time well spent.
Here they are:
http://my3and10.com Click on the 'YOU Videos' button at the top of the page.
May God Bless you & yours, and remind you today of how special you wonderful you are to so many - especially to us.
In Service,
Tim & Nicole Mancuso
Full-Time Independent Distributors
SendOutCards
P: 303-351-1404